A Mentor's Story...

Meet Stu, one of our amazing volunteer mentors. In his own words, he shares why he joined the mentoring programme and how it’s changed his life, his family’s life, and the life of his little sibling.

Man and boy playing together

What were your motivations for joining the mentoring programme?

My name is Stu, and I have two children currently studying at University and College. Having always been actively involved in my kids lives and supporting numerous clubs and activities over the years, I felt a strong desire to find a local mentoring programme where some of my life experiences and knowledge could make a difference. My wife came across Big Brothers Big Sisters, and after attending an open meeting, I was eager to get involved in this amazing scheme.

How have you found the mentoring experience?

I was paired with my little sibling, who was 11 years old at the time. Although I felt nervous at first, we instantly connected when we met, and I knew I could help make a positive impact in his life. I have now been mentoring for 18 months, and he has truly enriched both my life and that of our family. Over time, he has become familiar with my wife and children, all of whom bonded with him immediately. Participating in the programme as a family has been a wonderful experience, allowing us to offer support, stability and guidance to help him on his onward journey.

We have focused on simple activities that he may have missed out on growing up - such as learning to tie his shoelaces, reading together, and spending time on everyday activities. During our time together, I have seen his confidence grow and his bubbly, infectious personality emerge, bringing smiles to everyone around him.

What does the future hold for you and your 'little'?

While I am unsure what the future holds for him, I hope that Big Brothers Big Sisters will continue to make a difference in his life, just as it has in mine. This programme is truly incredible, and I encourage everyone to get involved, as there are many more young people who could benefit from a mentor's guidance and support.